|To the guys who said that, I am quite certain that you do not consider yourself to be handsome or good looking and you most probably do not have a respectable body shape. C’mon, let’s not be sour grapes, shall we? To the ladies who wrote in, think again because your first point of your attraction to a man is your sight before you even had a chance to talk to him or assess his other “more attractive characteristics”, don’t you agree?|
Yes, there are plenty of surveys and researches that indicated men are attracted to women by sight and all other feminine attributes are secondary issues. Perhaps, this was how “love at first sight” was coined. Therefore it is not surprising that when a beautiful and attractive lady walks into a room, every male except gays in the room will instinctively give her a top to toe glance. Some guys will already be making mental plans how to chat her up or even taking her to bed. Men, are you guilty of that? I know that I am, but no worries, it is only natural.
However, women’s attraction to men is much more complicated, or so the surveys reported. It is the total package that women will be looking for in a man. Good looks alone are not sufficient for a woman to fall head over heels with a man and sex is the usually the last thing in her mind. Of course there are some exceptions.